To make the mysteries of the clit a little less intimidating, we asked a bunch of people with vaginas what they actually want sexual partners to do to their clitoris. I can make myself orgasm in seconds. Not feeling rushed makes a massive difference as well.
1. The clitoris is all over the place.
As long as people are putting damaging things in their vagina, we will be there, advising people to, well, not do that. Yep, Vicks VapoRub. The stuff your mum used to rub on your chest when you were sick, and that you rub directly under nose in an attempt to be able to breathe through winter. This is not a good idea. A quick Google supplies you with a bunch of recommendations, as well as questions, on how VapoRub can affect your vagina. Some are using it for sexual purposes, and claim that the tingling sensation of VapoRub on your clit heightens pleasure. Both uses are not only ineffective in terms of their reported benefits, but can also cause serious damage. Remember the story of the woman who got Original Source mint shower gel in her vagina? Using Vicks down there is like that, but ten times worse. Durex intense gel is a good place to start.
2. Women moan in the middle of the night.
There are so many things we're never told about our vaginas like that most of the things on this list are actually about vulvas instead of vaginas, and no, the two are not the same. Here are 15 things I wish we'd had cleared up sooner. What the hell that white stuff in your underwear is. So many women spend years staring at their underwear and being horrified by that weird white discharge because they think it means they're dying or disgusting, and neither are true. If it's cottage cheese-y, yellow, grayish-green, watery, or more than you usually produce, then yes, see a doctor. But if it's just that clear-ish white stuff you've been seeing in your underwear every day since you can remember, stop stressing. I spent years not knowing why cleaning my vag with weird scented mall soaps did not feel awesome to me. How to actually give yourself an orgasm that doesn't involve pretending your finger is a penis.
Maybe about a year ago. Since I interpreted remotely via video, I got most of the routine cases: I can interpret those kinds of check ups in my sleep. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday.